Welcome to His Way Out Ministries

April 2007 Highlights

It's Official! Freedom from Homosexuality in Guyana, South America

In February 2007, His Way Out Ministries saw a vision that God Himself gave many, many years ago become a reality. Since 1999, His Way Out Ministries has made numerous trips to Guyana, South America with the expectation, hope and purpose of establishing a branch of our ministry with the specific purpose of reaching men and women struggling with same-gender attraction, equipping the Church to be more effective in evangelizing those struggling with homosexuality, and offering ministry to those impacted by HIV/AIDS. The vision God gave us at HWOM became an official reality on February 5, 2007.

At the National Library in Georgetown, the capital of Guyana, at 10:00am on February 5, 2007, an official launching ceremony detailing the ministry partnership between Operation Restoration, a local Guyanese ministry co-directed by Phyllis Jordan and Jennifer Flatts, and His Way Out Ministries took place. The extremely well attended event included pastors and Christian leaders from numerous denominations, representatives from the media and Christian community, and many individuals hoping for a specialized ministry to help with unwanted same-gender attraction to become birthed and full-time in Guyana. The launching ceremony began with the singing of Guyana's national anthem followed by the genesis of Operation Restoration, a presentation of the ministry partnership between Operation Restoration and His Way Out Ministries by Pastor Phillip Lee, Executive Director of His Way Out Ministries, a time of questions and answers by those in attendance and ultimately introducing the ministry personnel that would be facilitating the ministry. Wonderfully, the entire event was recorded and preserved on DVD as the occasion truly marked a point in history for the nation of Guyana. To God be the glory!

Coinciding with the establishment of the ex-gay ministry event, Pastor Phillip Lee once again had the privilege of teaching a five-night series titled Homosexuality and the Reality of Change at the Wesleyan Bible University in Georgetown. By invitation of Pastor Marlon Hestick, President of the Wesleyan Bible University, this was the second time His Way Out Ministries had been invited to teach bible students, pastors and Christian leaders on the reality of freedom from homosexuality. The series was incredibly well received and the response from those in attendance could not have been more encouraging as many students and pastors shared their appreciation for the course. As a result, Pastor Hestick requested His Way Out Ministries to facilitate the course on a regular yearly basis viewing the teachings as critical in equipping those entering into ministry and for those already in full-time ministry as well. Therefore, His Way Out Ministries has already planned a return to Guyana for February 2008 (if not before).

Also during the trip in February, Pastor Phillip facilitated three training sessions for numerous men and women on How to Facilitate Support Groups. Since the usage and facilitation of support groups has never been used in Guyana to help those struggling with homosexuality and lesbianism, the trainings were incredibly well attended as many displayed their desire to learn and equip themselves with ministry tools for support group facilitation. All persons participating in the training received a working knowledge of support groups, an abundance of printed material specifically written by His Way Out Ministries to help them in organizing and running support groups and on the final day of training, Pastor Phillip modeled a support group using several men as support group participants thereby showing all in attendance just how groups are conducted and facilitated. It was a very exciting series and once again marked a turning point in Guyanese history.

On behalf of all of us at His Way Out Ministries, we want to express our sincere appreciation and gratitude to the many of you, both individuals and churches that stood with us over these many years believing that God would fulfill His vision for Guyana. Now, that the vision is a reality, men, women, families and churches of all denominations in Guyana have a full-time resource available to them in their own country. Certainly, the vision of ex-gay ministry in Guyana was challenged over and over again. However, when God gives direction and promise, He will fulfill His Word. Thank you for standing with us and believing that our God remains a God of new beginnings.

From All of Us at His Way Out Ministries...

To each of you who continually bless us by your encouragement, ministry participation, monthly financial support, offerings and prayers...we remain truly grateful. His Way Out Ministries is proclaiming to, educating and impacting the world with the biblical truth that freedom from homosexuality is possible when Jesus Christ is Lord of your life.

Prayerfully Yours,

Pastor Phillip Lee

Executive Director
His Way Out Ministries

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Dear His Way Out Ministries...

Words cannot begin to describe how grateful I am for His Way Out Ministries. While distance prohibits our talking face-to-face, thankfully via email, I can receive guidance, support and encouragement in my journey out of homosexuality. Yehoshafat (Israel)

Thank you so much for the blessing that you have been to the students and Guyana. Only heaven will be able to tell the true story of how much God has used you to be a blessing. I salute you. Pastor Marlon Hestick (Guyana)

Thank you for the enlightening seminar. It certainly enhanced our understanding. The seminar definitely equips people for ministry as we received valuable information and tools. Dennis Griffith (California)

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The Gay Gospel? (How Pro-Gay Advocates Misread the Bible)

Joe Dallas, author of Desires in Conflict and A Strong Delusion, has a new book titled The Gay Gospel? In The Gay Gospel? you'll find the crucial balance between conviction and compassion and a practical guide to communicating with those who have embraced the pro-gay theology. Joes's book is a must read for anyone seeking truth regarding pro-gay theology and reaching those bound by same-gender attraction. Once again, Joe has thoroughly and clearly presented biblical truths while offering practical steps and tools to be more effective in evangelizing the gay community. Ultimately, the content of Joe's book cements the fact that the entire issue of homosexuality is really about the Lordship of Jesus Christ and the Authority of Scripture.

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April 7th L.I.F.E. Support Group Reminders

On Saturday, April 7th, our L.I.F.E. Support Group (Living in Fellowship...Even in Tough Times), will be meeting at Chester Avenue Community Church, located at 1509 South Chester Avenue (corner of South Chester and Ming Ave.). Our meeting will begin promptly at 9am and conclude at 11am. This L.I.F.E. Support Group location change is for April 7th only. After April 7th, we will resume meeting at the His Way Out Ministries office location.

Beginning April 7th at the L.I.F.E. Support Group, His Way Out Ministries will offer a break out session facilitated by Ginny Mitchell (an HWOM Advisory Board Member) for spouses whose marriage has been impacted by homosexuality. If homosexuality has knocked on the personal front door of your marriage, please take advantage of this confidential, enlightening and encouraging group. L.I.F.E. meets faithfully on the first Saturday of each month from 9am to 11am.

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In Appreciation...

Harvest Christian Church - Bakersfield, CA
His Way Out Ministries would like to express our sincere appreciation for the opportunity to give a ministry update report, share a DVD presentation on our outreach in Guyana, and personally thank the congregation of Harvest Christian Church in Bakersfield on March 4th for their continued support and encouragement. The opportunity was particularly meaningful for Pastor Phillip as Pastor Pat Harrelson, Senior Pastor of Harvest Christian Church was Pastor Phillip's pastor upon becoming a Christian twenty-one years ago.

University Baptist Church - Bakersfield, CA
On Sunday, March 18th, His Way Out Ministries had the privilege of participating in a missions fair at University Baptist Church in Bakersfield. This was the fifth time HWOM had the opportunity to share with congregation members all that God continues to do through His ministry called His Way Out and to thank the congregation for their years of support. Numerous individuals made their way to the HWOM booth to offer words of encouragement and obtain information on the ministry services of HWOM.

Christian Assembly Church - Lake Isabella, CA
A message titled "A Christian Response to Homosexuality" was offered to the congregation of Christian Assembly Church in Lake Isabella by Pastor Phillip on Sunday, March 25th. Warmly received and appreciated, Christian Assembly of God has been instrumental in organizing and hosting trainings on freedom from homosexuality for individuals and churches of all denominations in Lake Isabella and the surrounding area.

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Exodus Freedom Conference June 26 - July 1, 2007

Concordia University - Irvine, CA

The Freedom Conference offers hope, encouragement, answers and support to men, women and students who personally struggle with same-gender attractions, parents, spouses, family members and friends impacted by homosexuality. The conference also offers training for pastors, student leaders, church leaders, counselor and educators to be more effective in ministering to those struggling with or affected by homosexuality, and reaching the gay community with God's grace and truth. For more information on the conference or to register on-line, please visit: Revolution: Exodus Freedom Conference

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Coming Up This Month!

April 7th - L.I.F.E. (Living in Fellowship...Even in Tough Times). On Saturday, April 7th, we will turn our attention to: Confronting Pro-Gay Theology: A Balance of Truth and Grace-"How Did We Get Here?" Is the fact that we are even arguing over the subject of homosexuality a sign of weakness within the Church? If you have chosen to leave homosexuality, or you are a spouse, family member or friend of someone struggling with homosexuality...this group is for you! L.I.F.E. meets faithfully on the first Saturday of each month from 9am to 11am.

April 14th - "TIME OUT" Men's Discipleship Support Group - On Saturday, April 14th we will be discussing Boundaries. Healthy boundaries helps us guard and maintain our souls. We are responsible to establish boundaries for our feelings, attitudes, behaviors, thoughts, etc. In being a good steward of our lives, we take responsibility for our own well-being. Time Out meets from 9am to 11am.

April 17th - His Way Out Ministries "Board of Directors" Meeting

April 28th - "TIME OUT" Men's Discipleship Support Group - Same-Sex Relationships will be the focus of our discussion on Saturday, April 28th form 9am to 11am. Because of the sexualization of unmet needs, our ability to develop healthy relationships may be hindered by inappropriate feelings and responses. But those feelings do not have to rule us. Time Out is available to adult men struggling with same-gender attraction.

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How You Can Help His Way Out Ministries
  • Ask your pastor to check out this website.

  • Encourage your pastor to consider hosting a seminar or inviting His Way Out Ministries to speak at your church.

  • Ask your church to consider adding His Way Out Ministries to its missions budget.

  • Add His Way Out Ministries to your prayer list.

  • Tell your friends about His Way Out Ministries and encourage them to visit this web site.

  • Give to His Way Out Ministries, either a special one-time gift or on a monthly basis.

  • Show our teaching DVD or Video: "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change" to your Sunday School class.

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Video: "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change"
Homosexuality and the Reality of Change presents a biblical perspective on the homosexual behavior with honesty and compassion. The 50 minute video contains information on: Can Homosexuals Really Change?, Will the Person Become Heterosexual?, How Long Does Change Take?, Exposing the Roots of Homosexuality, HIV and AIDS, Biblical and Scientific Evidence for Change, and much, much more.

This video is an excellent resource for teachers, churches, pastors, support group leaders, or anyone desiring a clear, comprehensive understanding of homosexuality.

The Good News of Jesus Christ and His love, acceptance, and forgiveness, His power to heal and restore has brought hope to many struggling with homosexuality. If you know someone struggling with same-gender attractions Homosexuality and the Reality of Change can help.

Videos are available on VHS or DVD at a cost of $20.00. To order your video...give us a call today.

We recently received, and watched, the video you sent us. It was excellent. We will be sharing it with other people at our church. One part that especially ministered to us was when Pastor Lee said from Philippians 1:6 that God is never going to give up His job of working in our life to conform us to the image of Christ. It helps makes sense of life's trials. Thank you for your ministry...Tom & Catherine

Preview "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change"
2min 38sec, 1.3MB, QT.mov

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IT'S ABOUT LIFE:
Food Ministry to Those Impacted by AIDS
AIDS profoundly impacts one's life whether that person has been infected by it or they are a family member or a friend of someone who has. The social stigmas, fears and especially the "aloneness" associated with AIDS makes it oppressive to live with. "IT'S ABOUT LIFE" is a crucial part of His Way Out Ministries. Because His Way Out Ministries is committed to compassionately communicating God's heart through a caring Christian community, His Way Out Ministries will be a receiving house for non-perishable food items. This will assist those with AIDS to maintain a balanced diet and good nutrition. Two major considerations in food donations for folks with AIDS are speed and ease of preparation. An appetite sometimes doesn't last long and the item has to be readily accessible and speedily prepared for the patient to be able to enjoy it.

We invite churches, companies, ministries, corporations, individuals, and the entire City of Bakersfield to join with us in caring. Offer your support by donating the below listed items.

Canned tuna Canned soups
Canned ravioli Canned pasta products, e.g.Spaghettio's
Hamburger Helper Peanut butter
Hamburger Helper Peanut butter
Jams and jellies Breakfast cereals
Breakfast bars Fruit cocktail
Canned peaches Top Ramen
Cup o' Noodle soups Canned potatoes
Canned corn Macaroni and cheese mixes
Rice 'o Roni type mixes Chili beans
Tomato paste, Tomato sauce Spaghetti sauce
Potted meats Canned stews
Instant potato mixes, e.g., scalloped Instant oatmeal variety packs
Kleenex Paper towels
Toilet paper Popsicles (not frozen)
Instant breakfast drinks Spaghetti

His Way Out Ministries is located at Brimhall Road Assembly of God. Items will be distributed in cooperation with other outreaches in our community. This is a continuous, on-going ministry. For further information, please call 661-589-4262. God Bless You for your giving.

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His Way Out Ministries Services

  • Consultations
  • Family Support Group
  • Individual Prayer Ministry
  • "Time Out" Discipleship Series
  • Ministry Support Network
  • Speakers available to address Christian groups
  • "Moving On" Advanced/Closed Support Groups
  • "It's About Life" Ministry to Those Impacted by AIDS

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Send a Donation to His Way Out

In your own church, and throughout this entire world, people are in need of God's clarity about their relationships and their sexuality. Participating in the work of H.W.O.M. is one way to acknowledge Christ's healing power for the sexually broken.

Through your financial support or volunteer involvement, you can add your voice to those who are speaking the truth of God with integrity.

His Way Out Ministries is a nonprofit, tax exempt Christian ministry associated with Exodus International.

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His Way Out Ministries, 10700 Brimhall Road, Bakersfield, CA 93312
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