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July 2006 Highlights

Teach About Homosexuality? By Pastor Phillip Lee

Given the volatile issue and debate over homosexuality, and the tenacious efforts of those seeking its social legitimacy, the questions of how public institutions handle this critical issue must be addressed. To be sure, a key sector of influence with great social impact is public education.

With any matter involving human sexuality, the first principle that should be addressed is the importance and significance of age appropriateness. Regardless of how anyone answers or responds to the questions of the morality of homosexuality, the question of how and when a child should be exposed to the subject is extremely important.

Today, it seems that more and more parents' right to decide when and what their children will learn about human sexuality is being dismissed if not completely taken away; especially when it comes to the by no means agreed-upon social issue of homosexuality. If the subject of homosexuality is to be taught, then "true education" demands that all of the facts be taught and presented. However, for those in the pro-gay camp, homosexuality is offered, if not preached as being "just one more kind of love." The obvious attempt is to communicate moral approval. There is no clinical, scientific or scriptural basis for viewing or treating homosexuality as morally equivalent to heterosexuality. Therefore, any curriculum that purposes to present homosexuality in a positive manner, when compared with the benefits of healthy heterosexuality, enables the potential for great harm, medically, psychologically and socially.

School programs, curriculum, counselors, etc. that truly desire to help children and teenagers struggling with an issue of sexual identity should not expose them to the nonsense that the homosexual orientation is irreversible especially when scientific literature and biblical truths do not support the idea that anyone is "born" homosexual. Should a child need guidance or counseling in terms of sexual identity, it is the parents who have the right and responsibility to choose when, where and how that counseling or guidance will take place.

Frankly, if given the current political climate regarding the "push for homosexuality as an ok, alternate lifestyle" within public schools cannot be addressed factually and within a moral context, then it should not be addressed at all. The issue of homosexuality and related issues is not about civil rights but morals.

How is it that so many people forget, those for and against homosexual rights, is that it is more than possible (and from a Christian perspective), both to judge a behavior or lifestyle as immoral, and yet treat individuals with the respect and dignity which they deserve? Since homosexuality is an "acquired behavior," homosexuals are deserving of understanding and compassionate responses from everyone. Since the Holy Scriptures remain a foundation for all truth and not just a collection of man-made myths or opinions (as some would offer), then those involved in homosexual behavior deserve to know the truth about the nature of their brokenness coupled with the offer of divine forgiveness and healing which is available through Christ Jesus. Why is it that so many would rather take the "easy road of acceptance" and not present the truths of homosexuality? Neither truth nor love is homophobic. Heaven knows, history dictates that any society which seeks to base it public policies on truth and love will both enable and ultimately gain one of life's most precious virtues - justice. What a concept!

From All of Us at His Way Out Ministries...

To each of you who continually bless us by your encouragement, ministry participation, monthly financial support, offerings, and prayers...we remain truly grateful. His Way Out Ministries is proclaiming to, educating, and impacting the world with the biblical truth that freedom from homosexuality is possible when Jesus Christ is Lord of your life.

Prayerfully Yours,

Pastor Phillip Lee

Executive Director
His Way Out Ministries

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Porterville, CA Homosexuality and the Reality of Change

Seminar Comments

Recently, His Way Out Ministries conducted a one-day training seminar in Porterville, CA. The seminar which offered teaching, testimony and video presentation was specifically designed to help those in attendance become better equipped to reach those bound by same-gender attraction.

Seminar participants offered the following comments:

  • The seminar was awesome. Your commitment to biblical truths is commendable.

  • Thanks again for coming our way to share your knowledge and expertise.

  • Having the opportunity to talk about this subject was especially helpful and encouraging.

His Way Out Ministries is very grateful to Living Word Fellowship for hosting the seminar.

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His Way Out Ministries Sponsored Workshops

His Way Out Ministries offers the following workshops providing practical and spiritual wisdom you need to reach those bound by same-gender attraction.

A Christian Response to Homosexuality - For any Christian concerned about the issue of homosexuality and how the Church can more effectively respond to it. An overview of the Church's response to homosexuality and the areas in which we can improve our capacity to speak the truth in love.

Homosexuality and the Reality of Change - Pastor Phillip Lee, Founder and Executive Director of His Way Out Ministries, brings a wealth of personal, as well as pastoral experience to this workshop. Pastor Lee will share his testimony, as well as discuss the questions: Can homosexuals really change?, How long does change take?, Will the person become heterosexual? And much, much more!

AIDS: Truth, Terror and Testimony - Through the presentation, Pastor Phillip Lee will challenge the audience with the most recent information concerning the AIDS virus and its impact on the community and the Church. This presentation is suitable for individuals Jr. High age through adult, and participants will leave with a copy of His Way Out's "AIDS Education Guide."

There's Something I Need to Tell You! (When a Loved One Confesses They're Homosexual) - What do you say and do when a loved one confesses they are homosexual? This workshop offers practical steps and information to help you understand your loved one, guidance to keep the lines of communication open without compromising your beliefs, and present the biblical position on homosexuality.

Reaching Gay Youth - While the number of youth embracing homosexuality is alarming, there are many ways in which you can reach them. This workshop centers on why youth should question homosexuality and what role you can play in help bringing that about.

How about sponsoring a His Way Out Ministries workshop in your church or community?

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Spreading the Good News in Guyana, South America!

June 29 - July 10, 2006

By the time you receive our July Newsletter, our His Way Out Ministries Missionary Team will have departed for Guyana, South America. Your prayers for Ginny Mitchell, Donna Castello, Louis Steers and Pastor Phillip Lee would be greatly appreciated as the HWOM Team will be teaching and sharing testimony about freedom from homosexuality throughout Guyana. Once again, our Heavenly Father has provided numerous doors of opportunity to proclaim today is still the day of healing and restoration in Christ Jesus. Please look for a full report of our journey to Guyana in an upcoming newsletter.

Due to Pastor Phillip being in Guyana, there will be no L.I.F.E. support group meeting on Saturday, July 1st. Please make plans to join us for L.I.F.E. on Saturday, August 5th.

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Reaching Gay Youth By Darren Thompson

When our path crosses with a struggling youth, we need to be open to partnering with the Lord to help turn the tide in his or her life. During adolescence most people determine the morals and personal identity they will embrace for the remained of their life. Likewise, much confusion and challenges will take place before any semblance of clarity comes. This is all the more true for youth deciding their sexual identity. Studies have shown that vast numbers of youth entering adolescence are uncertain about their sexual orientation, but few exiting the teenage years remain ambiguous. Therefore, the teenage years are a crucial period for the Church of Jesus Christ to speak to youth tempted by homosexuality. Keep in mind though that a youth worker or young Christian does not have to be an expert on homosexuality to help a questioning youth. Our commitment to Jesus Christ, prayer and having a right perspective will not only make a difference to a gay youth, it will distinguish Christians quite a bit from others he will encounter.

While it is easy to become cynical about the times in which we live, remember when God is put in the equation of life, a hope that does not disappoint rises within us. It is true that the number of teens embracing homosexuality is alarming, but we should trust God and reach out to gay youth with the message of salvation and sexual redemption available through the Lord Jesus Christ. I am grateful Christians did that for me.

Sometimes we can get our perspective skewed when it comes to teens and sexuality. If, for example, Christians want to minister to a non-Christian gay youth, our efforts should not be to initially get him or her in a support group to resolve his same-gender attractions. Heterosexuality is not the goal, but the by-product of holiness. When I first meet homosexuals, I try to discern if they know Christ or not because eternal direction holds a higher value than sexual preference. If the individual is not a Christian, then we should first look for an opportunity to introduce him to Jesus, share the Gospel with him, and give an invitation to a Bible study or a healthy social function. Be gentle, but diligent in inviting youth to church functions. A gay teen may have various reasons (including being intimidated, ashamed, ambivalent and fearful) for his reluctance to join such a group. Continue to invite him and offer to accompany him so he can see the great contrast between partying on the weekends in the gay lifestyle and what Christians do to have fun. One eventually leads humiliation while the other results in his edification.

Keep in mind it is very important for the gay youth to know and feel the love and social acceptance of young Christians too, not just ex-gays in a support group. Additionally, the Gospel is sufficient to reach anyone for Christ regardless if they are a child, Muslim, teacher or homosexual. In other words, we do not have to learn and present a different version of the Gospel. Once he is in a genuine relationship with our Heavenly Father, the Spirit, pursuant to His will and timing, will address and resolve the issues of the youth's sexuality. But do point him away from destructive sexual sin. The Good News is that "in Christ" we are without blame...regardless of our past sin preference.

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Coming Up This Month!

Due to the His Way Out Ministries Missionary Team (Donna Castello, Ginny Mitchell, Louis Steers and Pastor Phillip Lee) being in Guyana, South America until July 10th, the L.I.F.E. Support Group scheduled for July 1st and the Time Out Support Group scheduled for July 8th, will not be meeting.

July 22nd - "Time Out" A discipleship support group which meets from 9am to 11am is available to men struggling with same-gender attraction.

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How You Can Help His Way Out Ministries
  • Ask your pastor to check out this website.

  • Encourage your pastor to consider hosting a seminar or inviting His Way Out Ministries to speak at your church.

  • Ask your church to consider adding His Way Out Ministries to its missions budget.

  • Add His Way Out Ministries to your prayer list.

  • Tell your friends about His Way Out Ministries and encourage them to visit this web site.

  • Give to His Way Out Ministries, either a special one-time gift or on a monthly basis.

  • Show our teaching DVD or Video: "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change" to your Sunday School class.

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Video: "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change"
Homosexuality and the Reality of Change presents a biblical perspective on the homosexual behavior with honesty and compassion. The 50 minute video contains information on: Can Homosexuals Really Change?, Will the Person Become Heterosexual?, How Long Does Change Take?, Exposing the Roots of Homosexuality, HIV and AIDS, Biblical and Scientific Evidence for Change, and much, much more.

This video is an excellent resource for teachers, churches, pastors, support group leaders, or anyone desiring a clear, comprehensive understanding of homosexuality.

The Good News of Jesus Christ and His love, acceptance, and forgiveness, His power to heal and restore has brought hope to many struggling with homosexuality. If you know someone struggling with same-gender attractions Homosexuality and the Reality of Change can help.

Videos are available on VHS or DVD at a cost of $20.00. To order your video...give us a call today.

We recently received, and watched, the video you sent us. It was excellent. We will be sharing it with other people at our church. One part that especially ministered to us was when Pastor Lee said from Philippians 1:6 that God is never going to give up His job of working in our life to conform us to the image of Christ. It helps makes sense of life's trials. Thank you for your ministry...Tom & Catherine

Preview "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change"
2min 38sec, 1.3MB, QT.mov

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IT'S ABOUT LIFE:
Food Ministry to Those Impacted by AIDS
AIDS profoundly impacts one's life whether that person has been infected by it or they are a family member or a friend of someone who has. The social stigmas, fears and especially the "aloneness" associated with AIDS makes it oppressive to live with. "IT'S ABOUT LIFE" is a crucial part of His Way Out Ministries. Because His Way Out Ministries is committed to compassionately communicating God's heart through a caring Christian community, His Way Out Ministries will be a receiving house for non-perishable food items. This will assist those with AIDS to maintain a balanced diet and good nutrition. Two major considerations in food donations for folks with AIDS are speed and ease of preparation. An appetite sometimes doesn't last long and the item has to be readily accessible and speedily prepared for the patient to be able to enjoy it.

We invite churches, companies, ministries, corporations, individuals, and the entire City of Bakersfield to join with us in caring. Offer your support by donating the below listed items.

Canned tuna Canned soups
Canned ravioli Canned pasta products, e.g.Spaghettio's
Hamburger Helper Peanut butter
Hamburger Helper Peanut butter
Jams and jellies Breakfast cereals
Breakfast bars Fruit cocktail
Canned peaches Top Ramen
Cup o' Noodle soups Canned potatoes
Canned corn Macaroni and cheese mixes
Rice 'o Roni type mixes Chili beans
Tomato paste, Tomato sauce Spaghetti sauce
Potted meats Canned stews
Instant potato mixes, e.g., scalloped Instant oatmeal variety packs
Kleenex Paper towels
Toilet paper Popsicles (not frozen)
Instant breakfast drinks Spaghetti

His Way Out Ministries is located at Brimhall Road Assembly of God. Items will be distributed in cooperation with other outreaches in our community. This is a continuous, on-going ministry. For further information, please call 661-589-4262. God Bless You for your giving.

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His Way Out Ministries Services

  • Consultations
  • Family Support Group
  • Individual Prayer Ministry
  • "Time Out" Discipleship Series
  • Ministry Support Network
  • Speakers available to address Christian groups
  • "Moving On" Advanced/Closed Support Groups
  • "It's About Life" Ministry to Those Impacted by AIDS

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In your own church, and throughout this entire world, people are in need of God's clarity about their relationships and their sexuality. Participating in the work of H.W.O.M. is one way to acknowledge Christ's healing power for the sexually broken.

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