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Welcome to His Way Out Ministries
April 2004 Highlights
- Redefine Marriage?
- Darren's Update From...Guyana, South America
- It Was A Great Time At...
- Coming Up In April!
- Now on DVD: "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change"
- IT'S ABOUT LIFE: Food Ministry to Those Impacted by AIDS
- His Way Out Ministries Services
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If we, as a society, allow marriage to be redefined to include same-gender couples, then a downward spiral has begun. Given enough time, the original concept of "family" could be driven right out of our consciousness.
I have heard gay couples argue that they can do a fine job of raising children. Some say they are better at it than some heterosexual couples they've known. "Where there is love," they say, "there is a family." So...if love, for whatever reason, dies, the family relationship dies as well? If parents stop loving their children, can they, under this new definition, throw their kids out?
The real question is not whether there is love. The question is whether love "by itself" should qualify people to undo centuries of traditional and theological understanding of the term family to make it accommodate them and their values.
The answer to family problems is to correct the problems, not redefine the family. No matter how benign a homosexual couple may be, if you compare what the average same-gender couple has to offer with the average opposite-sex couple, the opposite-sex couple will win out, because they include a mother and a father.
Some feel that homosexual couples are less than ideal as parents because of their homosexuality. However, I would argue that it is not just their homosexuality that makes them less than ideal...it's their sameness. Children need the influence of both a man and a woman; anything less may be good to a point, but never ideal. To be of any real use, a standard must represent what is ideal, not what is good to a point.
Gratefully Redeemed,
Pastor Phillip Lee
Executive Director
His Way Out Ministries
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Darren's Update From...Guyana, South America
Greetings in the Name of Jesus! Gratefully, I am safe, encouraged and remain in good health. The Lord is certainly doing a new thing in me. This mission experience is stretching and conforming me into a more well-rounded ambassador for Christ.
I am staying very busy. I travel nearly everyday with a Guyanese pastor to teach and preach. Since many Guyanese families live in poverty, we often visit homes and pray and encourage them and then bless them with groceries or a toy for the children. The needs are great here. Fortunately, the Guyanese know how to pull together to help each other and I am reassured of our Father's faithfulness to meet each of the needs of His family. Consequently, I am having
many opportunities to see new places and meet many believers and pastors. I can testify that no matter how remote the area, God is at work.
I have also been able to help and speak at open-air meetings. These meetings are an effective tool to spread the Gospel. What typically takes place is that the church will meet at a certain village for three evenings to worship and pray. Then a pastor will present the Gospel message. Nearly every night people are placing their faith in Jesus Christ. Out of these evangelistic efforts, a church will be pioneered or new believers will be directed to a nearby fellowship.
I am saddened to hear of the incredible speed by which judges and politicians are taking to recognize gay marriage in the U.S. It seems that our country and families are growing more broken and disoriented to accept gay marriage as a new alternative. But, I am confident that when the world grows darker, the truth of God's light will spring up within more and more witnesses for Christ. However, the Lord has already raised up ministries around the world that share the same mission and burden as His Way Out Ministries for such a time as this. The Lord is fulfilling His purposes through them. As homosexuality develops in more families and inversely more families are grieved and split because of homosexuality, ministry and love must be available. As for me, as the challenges grow greater, I am anticipating the testimonies of more people that by God's might and mercy have been set free.
But, what I am learning is that no country is without great difficulty. As God's Kingdom expands, the nations of the world just become more worldly. As for me, I am excited to be a citizen of a holy nation (1 Peter 2:9). You see people of God, whichever country you may reside in, you are still a member of a nation within a nation, God's Kingdom.
In Guyana, South America, we look forward to Pastor Lee's upcoming visit to further proclaim God's goodness and relevance throughout the world. Your partner in ministry, Darren.
Darren Thompson is His Way Out Ministries missionary to Guyana, South America. Please remember him in your prayers as he continues to serve in Guyana until June 2004.
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It Was A Great Time At...
Christian Ministry Convention - "Reaching the City Together" - Bakersfield, CA.
His Way Out Ministries had the wonderful opportunity to participate in the 25th Annual Christian Ministry Convention in Bakersfield, CA. on March 12th and 13th. The two workshops: A Christian Response to Homosexuality and Homosexuality and the Reality of Change were greatly received and numerous convention participants expressed their sincere appreciation for each workshop subject.
Fairfax Assembly of God Missions Convention, Bakersfield, CA.
On March 14th, His Way Out Ministries participated in the Missions Convention at Fairfax Assembly of God. By invitation of Rev. Pete Baker, His Way Out Ministries had the privilege of presenting the ministry services offered by HWOM and participated in a question/discussion panel regarding the complexities of homosexuality.
Azuza Pacific University, Azuza, CA.
His Way Out Ministries was honored to share testimony and teaching on the reality of change from homosexuality at Azuza Pacific University on March 18th. Sharing about a God who delivers and restores to the Senior Seminar/Christian WorldView (Teacher Education Department), the presentation was more than well received. Students (many for the first time) came face-to-face with the reality of change. To God be the glory!
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Coming Up In April!
April 3rd - L.I.F.E. (Living in Fellowship...Even in Tough Times).
The L.I.F.E. Support Group offers education and sharing for those choosing to leave the homosexual lifestyle, spouses, family members and friends of those struggling with homosexuality, and those desiring to understand the complexities of homosexuality. L.I.F.E. meets faithfully on the first Saturday of each month from 9am to 11am. On April 3rd we will turn our attention to "Healing Relationships." We will look at the symptoms of codependency as well as the rules codependent families follow in their attempts to communicate. We will also look at ways to stop unhealthy relating and develop more open and honest sharing.
April 10th - "Time Out"...a discipleship support group for men and women struggling with same-gender attraction.
This open-style, drop-in support group meets at 9am to 11am.
April 12th to 21st - Pastor Phillip Lee will be in Guyana, South America.
Television and church teaching opportunities have been arranged. Your prayer support would be greatly appreciated.
April 24th - "Time Out"...a discipleship support group for men and women struggling with same-gender attraction.
This open-style, drop-in support group meets at 9am to 11am.
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Video: "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change"
Homosexuality and the Reality of Change presents a biblical perspective on the homosexual behavior with honesty and compassion. The 50 minute video contains information on: Can Homosexuals Really Change?, Will the Person Become Heterosexual?, How Long Does Change Take?, Exposing the Roots of Homosexuality, HIV and AIDS, Biblical and Scientific Evidence for Change, and much, much more.
This video is an excellent resource for teachers, churches, pastors, support group leaders, or anyone desiring a clear, comprehensive understanding of homosexuality.
The Good News of Jesus Christ and His love, acceptance, and forgiveness, His power to heal and restore has brought hope to many struggling with homosexuality. If you know someone struggling with same-gender attractions Homosexuality and the Reality of Change can help.
Videos are available on VHS or DVD at a cost of $20.00. To order your video...give us a call today.
We recently received, and watched, the video you sent us. It was excellent. We will be sharing it with other people at our church. One part that especially ministered to us was when Pastor Lee said from Philippians 1:6 that God is never going to give up His job of working in our life to conform us to the image of Christ. It helps makes sense of life's trials. Thank you for your ministry...Tom & Catherine
Preview "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change"
2min 38sec, 1.3MB, QT.mov
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IT'S ABOUT LIFE:
Food Ministry to Those Impacted by AIDS
AIDS profoundly impacts one's life whether that person has been infected by it or they are a family member or a friend of someone who has. The social stigmas, fears and especially the "aloneness" associated with AIDS makes it oppressive to live with. "IT'S ABOUT LIFE" is a crucial part of His Way Out Ministries. Because His Way Out Ministries is committed to compassionately communicating God's heart through a caring Christian community, His Way Out Ministries will be a receiving house for non-perishable food items. This will assist those with AIDS to maintain a balanced diet and good nutrition. Two major considerations in food donations for folks with AIDS are speed and ease of preparation. An appetite sometimes doesn't last long and the item has to be readily accessible and speedily prepared for the patient to be able to enjoy it.
We invite churches, companies, ministries, corporations, individuals, and the entire City of Bakersfield to join with us in caring. Offer your support by donating the below listed items.
| Canned tuna | Canned soups |
| Canned ravioli | Canned pasta products, e.g.Spaghettio's |
| Hamburger Helper | Peanut butter |
| Hamburger Helper | Peanut butter |
| Jams and jellies | Breakfast cereals |
| Breakfast bars | Fruit cocktail |
| Canned peaches | Top Ramen |
| Cup o' Noodle soups | Canned potatoes |
| Canned corn | Macaroni and cheese mixes |
| Rice 'o Roni type mixes | Chili beans |
| Tomato paste, Tomato sauce | Spaghetti sauce |
| Potted meats | Canned stews |
| Instant potato mixes, e.g., scalloped | Instant oatmeal variety packs |
| Kleenex | Paper towels |
| Toilet paper | Popsicles (not frozen) |
| Instant breakfast drinks | Spaghetti |
His Way Out Ministries is located at Brimhall Road Assembly of God. Items will be distributed in cooperation with other outreaches in our community. This is a continuous, on-going ministry. For further information, please call 661-589-4262. God Bless You for your giving.
His Way Out Ministries Services
- Consultations
- Family Support Group
- Individual Prayer Ministry
- "Time Out" Discipleship Series
- Ministry Support Network
- Speakers available to address Christian groups
- "Moving On" Advanced/Closed Support Groups
- "It's About Life" Ministry to Those Impacted by AIDS
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In your own church, and throughout this entire world, people are in need of God's clarity about their relationships and their sexuality. Participating in the work of H.W.O.M. is one way to acknowledge Christ's healing power for the sexually broken.
Through your financial support or volunteer involvement, you can add your voice to those who are speaking the truth of God with integrity.
His Way Out Ministries is a nonprofit, tax exempt Christian ministry associated with
Exodus International.
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